In other words, women don’t say, “Oh, he’s a kind, honest, loyal guy from a good family and that really turns me on.”
What they DO say when they’re feeling it for a man are things like: “He’s hot,” or, “There’s chemistry between us,” or, “I really feel something for him” when they’re feeling it for a man.
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Even worse… if you are perceived as “average” early on, then a switch goes off in her mind, and the game is over before it’s even begun.
Harsh reality is, no amount of niceness (or gifts, favors, and fancy dinners) will make a woman feel attraction for you. At best, these things get you placed permanently in the “Friend Zone” where she’ll tell you all about how hot she is for some other guy.
The flip side is… if a woman DOES feel a strong attraction for you, then the rest of the equation isn’t as important. She’ll go out of her way to find good reasons to be with you… even if you’re not her physical type.
So then, if you see yourself as an average guy… but you realize that women don’t like average guys…
How Can *YOU* Make A Woman Feel INSTANT ATTRACTION?
Thought you’d never ask.
First, let’s talk about the word “average” and what it really means. As far as women are concerned — and especially the attractive ones — men are everywhere. I mean, they’re like cars or something… every once in awhile one stands out and makes you say, Oh, that one is nice.
Now, a lot of guys take this concept too far and say, “Well, I’m not rich, and I’m not famous… so, no really hot woman is going to find me attractive.” Well here’s today’s newsflash for you:
You are wrong. Dead wrong. My experience and research has shown that women are FAR more attracted to things like attitude, confidence, body language, humor, etc. than looks or money.
Sure… looks and money might initially get a woman’s attention (and there are women that will only settle for a rich or unusually handsome guy) but this is the extreme minority.
It’s Easy To Stand Out… Once You Know What Women REALLY Want
THE FACT IS THIS: It’s incredibly easy to be seen as above average if you know what women are looking for… and you know how to deliver it. That in mind, let’s do a little exercise to figure out a couple things:
1) What most guys do that make women perceive them as fatally average.
2) What you can do to instantly be seen as above average and – most importantly – attractive.
First, let’s talk about what most guys do wrong. Here’s what I’ve seen…
If the setting is a bar or a club, most guys will either say, “Can I buy you a drink?,” “Wanna dance?”, or “Hey baby, how you doin’?”…” or they do crass things like stare at women with wanting eyes or grab them as they walk by.
If the setting is a public place, like maybe a woman working at a clothing store, a waitress, or some other similar high-traffic situation, most guys will ask a lame question like, “Do you have a boyfriend?” or, “Can I take you out sometime?”
Somebody shoot me. These kinds of approaches can only result in you being seen as another lame, average guy.